Graciela Villa enrolled at San Joaquin Delta College following the birth of her son, Adan. She was one of more than a dozen students through the CalWORKs program who decorated their commencement caps as a group this week.
'I did it for him': Caps tell CalWORKs students' stories
Alex Breitler
May 13, 2019

When Graciela Villa dropped out of San Jose State University, she thought she was done with higher education.

Then along came her son, a little boy named Adan. And everything changed.

"I had to go back," she said. "I can't tell him to go to school one day if I never finished myself."

Graciela was one of more than a dozen Delta College CalWORKs students, many of them moms like her, who decorated their commencement caps this week as part of an end-of-the-year celebration. The photos and messages that now adorn their caps are more than simple expressions of happiness or excitement. Each cap tells the story of a graduate-to-be and the challenges each had to overcome.

Graciela Villa's commencement cap includes a photo of her son, Adan, and of her parents. Graciela is the first member of her family to finish college.

Graciela Villa

Graciela's cap shows her parents, who migrated from Mexico over 40 years ago, and a photo of Adan, now 3. Graciela will become the first of six siblings to finish college next week.

An aspiring lawyer and proud Latina, Graciela combined those passions on her cap: "Lawtina." She is about to earn an associate degree in psychology and will transfer to the University of the Pacific in the fall.

"It's been difficult," she said. "There were a lot of late nights. In the morning I'm a student, in the afternoon I'm a parent, and late at night I'm still doing homework. But it will be worth it."

Her son is her biggest fan. "At first he didn't like it," she said. "I would be doing work instead of playing with him. He would say, 'Mom, put the book away, close the laptop.' Now he tells me, 'Mom, do your homework.' It's pretty funny. He doesn't know it yet, but he's the one I keep doing this for.

"I want to teach other women that just because you're a single parent doesn't mean that your world is ending. This is just the beginning of a new chapter."

Vivian Medina's commencement cap includes a photo of her daughter Valentina and phrases that are important to her, like "first generation," "saved by grace" and "feminist." She is graduating from San Joaquin Delta College next week.

Vivian Medina

Vivian's cap prominently displays her daughter, Valentina, along with several phrases that are important to her: "First generation," "Saved by grace," "Feminist" and "Latina on the rise."

"I'm proud of my roots. I want to better the name of Latinas," she said.

The sociology major used to be a hairstylist but as a single parent knew she needed more for her daughter. 

"Going back to school is something I wanted to do but didn't think I could, honestly," Vivian said. "But somehow it's happening. I have a 3.0 GPA, which I never had in high school."

Valentina isn't old enough to understand how important next week's Commencement is to her family. But she knows something special is about to happen. "She keeps saying, 'Congratulations, Mommy,'" Vivian said.

Sesilie Miranda's commencement cap honors her son Haven, who is a big "Baby Shark" fan. Sesilie will graduate from San Joaquin Delta College with an accounting degree.

Sesilie Miranda

If it hadn't been for her son, Haven, Sesilie likely never would have gone back to school. Now she's about to earn a degree in accounting.

"It's just me and him," she said. "I had to do it. I had to show him you can do it. You can be both mom and dad."

She decorated her cap with the words, "I did it 4 my baby shark." Adan loves the wildly popular "Baby Shark" videos on YouTube.

He also loves school, which makes Sesilie optimistic about the future.

"Keep loving it," she tells her little baby shark.

San Joaquin Delta College CalWORKs students decorated their Commencement caps as part of an end-of-the-year celebration.

San Joaquin Delta College CalWORKs students decorated their Commencement caps as part of an end-of-the-year celebration.

San Joaquin Delta College CalWORKs students decorated their Commencement caps as part of an end-of-the-year celebration.

San Joaquin Delta College CalWORKs students decorated their Commencement caps as part of an end-of-the-year celebration.

San Joaquin Delta College student Sesilie Miranda works on her Commencement cap honoring her son Haven. "I did it for him," she said.

Vivian Medina cuts out a photo of her daughter, Valentina, for her Commencement cap. Vivian went to San Joaquin Delta College to help support Valentina.

Graciela Villa works on the Commencement camp honoring her son, Adan. She is the first in her family to graduate from college.

San Joaquin Delta College CalWORKs students decorated their Commencement caps as part of an end-of-the-year celebration.

San Joaquin Delta College CalWORKs students decorated their Commencement caps as part of an end-of-the-year celebration.

San Joaquin Delta College CalWORKs students decorated their Commencement caps as part of an end-of-the-year celebration.

San Joaquin Delta College CalWORKs students decorated their Commencement caps as part of an end-of-the-year celebration.